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"All children need a laptop. Not a computer, but a human laptop. Moms, Dads, Grannies and Grandpas, Aunts, Uncles - someone to hold them, read to them, teach them. Loved ones who will embrace them and pass on the experience, rituals and knowledge of a hundred previous generations. Loved ones who will pass to the next gneration their expectations of them, their hopes, and their dreams." - General Colin L. Powell

22 September 2009

Update

Man, it seems like time just flies sometimes. I keep meaning to post something and then life gets in the way. So for a quick recap of what's been going on around our neck of the woods:

Luke is growing like a weed. He's 9 months old and crawling and cruising the furniture like a mad man. He's got two teeth and loves to eat anything he can feed himself. He adores his big brother, sometimes to the dismay of his mommy and daddy... This adoration usually leads to mimicking of Andrew's temper tantrums.

Andrew is loving preschool, but really struggling with the concept of rules. He often refuses to help clean up and school and his new favorite phrase is, "I don't want to!" This has led to a lot of time in time out and on more than a few occasions lost privileges. But we love the little stinker, nonetheless.

Clayton and I have decided to finally get our rears in gear and lose the extra weight we've been carrying around for far too long. We started a health challenge and I've been using SparkPeople.com to help me keep track of what I eat. I'm not sure how much weight Clayton has lost, but he's now exercising 5-6 days a week and has cut out the soda. I'm down 9 lbs so far and we're just finishing up week four of our challenge. We've also been working on making our home a place where the Spirit resides instead of occasionally visits. We've been trying really hard to not yell at the kids and to focus more on teaching the gospel. We have some days that are better than others, but it's definitely a marked improvement over a month ago...especially for me.

So there's been a lot going on. I'm hoping to get back on the bandwagon. I still need to get pictures of the kids off of Clayton's computer so I can post them.

15 September 2009

The End of My Journey as a Single Woman!

So, Clayton and I went out for Valentine's Day. He thought it would be fun to dress up. SO I just knew that he was going to propose. The evening was great, but not what I had expected. The next night, Clayton came over and we were just hanging out talking. He turns to me and says, "So, hypothetically speaking, would May be too soon?" "Too soon?" "Yeah, too soon." "For what?" "To get married?" "Uh, no..." The discussion continued and ended with us having set May 28 as our wedding date. Still no ring. Still no official proposal. Because it was a holiday weekend that we had chosen, we decided we had better call the temple ASAP.
In the mean time, I was on my way home from work one night and called Clayton like I usually did. We chatted with some "Hang on a seconds" on his end. He asked me where I was and I told him just a couple of miles from home. I heard a bit of panic in his voice, but couldn't figure out why. When I turned the corner to get home, I saw his car parked in its usual spot. I opened the garage door, but my mom's car was gone. Curious. Just moments later, my mom's car turned the corner and I saw her and Clayton in the car. I wonder what THEY could have been up to. Clayton was acting all weird and when we decided to all go out to dinner together, he wouldn't let me sit in the front seat with my mom. So she chauffered us all over town. Very odd. But I knew deep down what was going on.

On March 1, I called the temple and scheduled our sealing, still with no ring or proposal. Clayton wanted to go out on the 4th, but wasn't feeling good. He called the next day and we planned to go out to dinner. He thought it would be fun to dress up "since we hadn't done that in a while." I knew what was coming...FINALLY! So he picked me up and we went out to Pei Wei for dinner. We were then planning to head up to the Fountain Hills/Scottsdale area to a lookout. But when we left dinner, Clayton headed the wrong direction. We pulled up to the Mesa Temple and he told me we should walk around for a while. He walked me over to the east side of the temple on the walkway and stopped. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. He had barely gotten out the question before I jumped on him and said "YES!" I couldn't believe it! I was finally, at 27 (and nearing 28) going to get married!

The next few months were filled with planning and getting everything together.
And on May 28, 2005 at 10:43am at the Mesa, AZ Temple, we were pronounced husband and wife. It's been an awesome and sometimes frustrating journey, but I love Clayton with all my heart and can't imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else! I love you so so so so so much, Honey! Thanks for putting up with me!

09 September 2009

MIA

Sorry about not posting anything for a while. We went to Idaho for a couple of weeks on vacation and just got back. I'll be posting pics from our trip as well as finishing off Clayton's and my story soon. So check back soon for updates!